Mother’s Day Moments
Mother’s Day comes but once a year however your job, love and duty is every waking hour and many sleepless nights. The moments sometimes go slow especially beside a sick baby, an ill child and screaming tantrums. We work a lot, cry a lot and just get on with our business. Some of us adopt, have a C Section, give birth the natural way and others nearly die in agony trying to spit it out. But never the less through all the puke and poop you smile from ear to ear when you see your little joy laugh for the first time. You watch every step and in hope, expectation and mere bliss anticipate every milestone. The joys of motherhood are what you do. You are a nurturer, like it or not, good or bad! You are the seed of Mother earth sowing her crops to bring forth the fruit of life.
Motherhood begins and ends when it does… time is precious, a gift! One wrapped up in a parcel of moments designed especially for you.
It’s Mother’s Day, some of us… maybe you are enjoying family and your kids. For some of us sadly our Mother’s died or just simply slipped away in time, with distance, disagreement or in abandonment? No matter who or what you do or experience this message is for you.
You have your story … Do you experience endless joy with your Mom, as a Mom, Grandmother or child enjoying both sides and the love and womanhood?
Are you like me… with too many sad moments to count? The reasons why are not really important at this time, so what really matters?
Regrets don’t help and tears make your eyes puff up. Food makes you Fat… LOL and being alone leaves you feeling barren, empty and feeling worthless. What do you do on days like this when your joy and expectation is not perfect? It feels like a box of melted chocolates…
Time …. Enjoy every moment!
The mille moments of grief make us grumpy and joy is lost under all the mistakes we made or didn’t make. Be it if you are guilty of being a lousy mother or an absent one. Guilt or regret, wishing and hoping changes nothing. Something’s can be fixed but life is not a plumbing problem, an electrical malfunction or a computer hard drive you can through away and buy a new one.
Let your hurt have a voice, listen to the cry of your pain she has a message of wisdom. Become your own best friend, meditate, pray or simply be still in the moment. Give yourself a little touch of kindness. Life is a season in baring fruit. Plant a seed, nurture your life, have compassion for you, spend time in natural, be creative and rejoice with friends who care. Life is like a box of melted chocolates, sometimes messy.
My Mother’s Day Message is,
Enjoy every moment! “Moments sometimes go slow but years fly by like seconds.” Your life is a gift.. Open her up. Dance, sing and play like the child you are. For you are an off spring of mother earth, God’s child and blessing filled with magic gold and light shining bright like a star.
Lick your fingers and enjoy every taste.